In today’s Breakthrough Experience, Daniel – a member of the Lighthouse International community for over 4 years, shares how because of his willingness to let go of past disappointments in business as well as his commitment to learning from them, he opened up to a whole world of opportunity that he didn’t imagine was possible!

While reading this please consider:

1. What past disappointments are you hanging onto that are affecting your quality of life right now?
2. What would it mean for you to be able to turn that disappointment into a massive opportunity?!

Read more at the end of Daniel’s piece on why it’s so crucial to look at the areas where we stumble in our lives so that we can learn, grow and become better…


Turning Business Failure Into a Powerful Opportunity – Daniel Schmitz

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Daniel and his daughter Lilly

My journey started a few years ago when I came to London from Germany. It felt like quite an exciting time with lots of changes and I could see lots of new possibilities in a big city like London. I felt quite confident and had a good level of energy and made the decision to start my own business. I thought I had this amazing technical idea which would definitely work out… I started to put all my energy into it to make it happen. Initially it was really good fun, it felt like I was building something new which would give me freedom and independence, it would allow me to make my own decisions and to make money while learning a lot about technology and business at the same time.

My plan was to make this happen relatively quickly and then I could focus more on my relationships, with my girlfriend (who’s now my wife) and building up new friendships. That at least was the plan (if you could really call it a plan…).

After months and months of effort I started to feel that something wasn’t right without fully understanding what it was. My initial level of energy dropped and I wasn’t sure anymore if this was the right way to go forward and if I would ever make it happen.

It took me quite a while to realise that this way of moving ahead and being on my own just didn’t work at all and that it wasn’t good for me and also not good for others around me.
The hardest part was to accept this, to detach from my approach, to admit to myself that I had screwed this up spectacularly, that it’s completely ok and to see it as a good learning experience of how not to do it…

Despite this experience there was still something in me that wanted to give it another try and to do something different with my life and to make something happen. A year later I got a flyer for an organisation and I thought I’d give it a go and see what it was all about.

This was the start of my journey with Lighthouse International and when I met other people who also tried to start their own business I realised that I’m not the only person who was struggling with this goal!

Through Lighthouse I started to learn about personal development, personal growth, leadership, responsibility and relationships and how this is all related to starting a business and is also related to my life in general. I started to read books about these topics and I joined an awesome program called LifeQuest which helped me a lot. I got introduced to mentoring and how a mentor can help me to progress and see things differently, to make new realisations; to move forward and slowly but surely overcome my fears.

This helped me immensely to see things differently. I realised my gaps in terms of what I need to have in place before I can achieve my goals in life. This involved learning a lot about me, why I wanted to start a business, why it is so important to be balanced in life, why genuine, trust-filled relationships are so crucial and why improving my listening skills is so valuable.

I learnt as well that it really takes a lot of effort to develop my character, what principles and values are, how to become clearer about the values I live my life by and why this is so helpful and important. Through all of these experiences my energy levels recovered, I became a more balanced person and I started to see many more opportunities in my life. This all helped me to feel much more certain and grounded about life and I feel I am in a much better place to add great value to others as well.

I also learned to appreciate and enjoy this journey knowing that there is no ‘quick fix’ when it comes to personal development.

Most importantly I can see much clearer the impact of my own growth and development on other areas of my life. I feel I can be a better husband to my wife and a better father to my little daughter and that there is a foundation in place in myself from where I can genuinely build up my life and make my dreams come true.
road imageI’m also aware that this is a continuous journey and that I still need to learn a lot. I still screw things up and I know I can still do lots of things differently and better. Though I feel it’s much easier for me to fully accept this, that I will make mistakes and to see it more as an opportunity for further changes and that it’s all part of life. Who said it’s easy to move ahead and to achieve your dreams?

So I’m very grateful to be part of a great community, to know so many wonderful people who are dedicated to their own growth, to helping others and to making their dreams come true as well.

Thank you very much to everyone for the journey so far and looking forward to everything else to come! – Daniel Schmitz


Defining Daniel’s Breakthrough Lessons

– by Chris Nash, Director, Mentor & Coach, Lighthouse International 

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Chris Nash

Whether we are learning about ourselves and what we want and need through an assessment, mentorship, a publication or a dedicated program like LifeQuest that Daniel went on, we will always encounter those sensitive areas in ourselves that have been left unattended for quite some time. In Daniel’s case it was the disappointment of a failed business and the loss of self-belief that came with that.

One of the biggest challenges that I have had in myself and that I work with others on is encouraging them to look at the areas of their lives where they haven’t got quite the result they expected, to really understand why that is, and to then do something about it! Avoiding these areas that need our attention is so damaging and results in them festering for a long period of time.

What is most fascinating about supporting people through something like the Wants & Needs Gap Assessment & Analysis is that people embark on it to find and fill their gaps BUT, then because of the old habit of hiding away from our gaps kicking in – people don’t really take as much value from this incredible development opportunity as they could because they are scared of what might come up… We all know this feeling, but those who create the freedom they desire have the humility and courage to break through this destructive cycle of avoiding what we really need to see. They go on to create wonderful lives filled with meaning, purpose and heartfelt connection with those that mean the most to them rather than remaining stuck, caged by the past.

If you’d like to learn more about being mentored to achieve your own goals and overcome your challenges you can learn more and register on this page…


*LifeQuest is an advanced and intensive experiential learning program for people who are absolutely committed to optimising their lives. It’s designed to help people break through the limiting beliefs and fears that hold them back on the path to success. It enables people to bring the right people, skills and money together to either launch a national business or step into a senior position at a company. Learn more about our programs here.

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